What does it mean when a guy sends you a text or bbm message, then when you respond he doesn’t write back?
I have been on three dates with a guy, he writes me every day just to check in. I noticed after the second date he pulled back a bit as there was two weeks between our second and third date.
He has told me “I am into you”, that I am the type of girl he would date, but then when it comes to hanging out he seems hesitant. I asked him about it and he said that he doesn’t want a relationship right now as he is newly single and is enjoying his space playing sports and working.
SO – Why message me every day, then when I respond, not write back?
All the things that are going through my head are:
- He is just not that into me
- He said he had a busy week at the beginning of the week – He is just busy
- He is keeping tabs on me until he is ready – He likes me
I am perplexed as 95% of the time he is the one to initiate. If I have learned one thing from dating, Guys love the CHASE.
I am struggling with the idea of just letting it be and seeing the way it plays out because I know I will hear from him again. But when I hear from him again, do I just ignore him?
My question to you is:
Is it okay to play games back with a “player/gamer” in an effort to set them straight or are we setting the stage for an unhealthy relationship?
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