I am on the 5th CD of 14 from the series Your Wish is your Command: How to have, be, or do anything and everything you desire by Kevin Trudeau (talked about in a previous post: Want to make your wishes/dreams a reality?).
Kevin Trudeau talks about the Law of Attraction, that our brains give off frequencies that essentially fire back what you put out there.
He also talks about change and our ability to accept change. The idea that; why do we expect change if we have not changed anything ourselves?
This was a moment for me. Of course I am constantly evaluating my life and my relationships but what am I really doing to change the course I am on if it is not working for me?
When it comes to my relationships I keep attracting the same kind of men….then blaming THEM. Well maybe it isme, what am I doing to change the relationships I am attracting?
I am a lot of the time excepting behaviours that are not in line with what I want, ie; men that do not want committed relationships, don’t call, are absent a lot and are often not happy with their lives.
I set the standards for my relationships and it starts with loving myself enough to change my behaviour and not accept relationships that are sub par. By changing my behaviour and reaction to these typical men I attract I will change the course of my “vibration”, my attraction. By changing my mind and having more confidence in myself, loving myself enough to choose men that are what I really WANT and nothing less, I change that frequency/vibration I put out there.
It’s a start, it starts with me.