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When in doubt do nothing.
It’s an interesting thought when it comes to dating. One of my male friends says this to me continuously when I am questioning whether to message a guy I like, speak up about my feelings or act in general.
It kind of makes sense when you think about it Universally too. If you are not totally sure/confident in your idea/action then, don’t do it.
Wait until you are perhaps a bit more comfortable taking that action.
I am starting to learn that Men react better to non action or absence anyways, so this theory would be in line wth that.
Ofcourse there have got to be exceptions to this rule, obviously some actions/ideas should be spontaneous and in the moment. For example, if there is an opportunity to kiss that special someone and you are nervous or unsure, sometimes its better to face that fear and grab that kiss. That could be the difference…doubt versus fear. Are you doubting your action or just afraid?
Have you ever heard the saying “when the time is right”? I think most of us who learn to listen to our gut and intuition would follow this analogy. If we are doubting the action/thought then the time may not be right.
Interesting. What do you think?